Great post! My favorite thing about you is you continue to look deeply at yourself and change to truly become a "man only a fool would leave!" Although I tend to forget this point, but DB is about saving ourselves so we know we will be ok (better than ok) regardless of the outcome of our marriages. I know you've had some struggles with how to handle some situations but you really are a great example of what DBing is about. Your kids are very lucky to have you and your future Mrs. is going to be very lucky too. Will that be your XW, who knows...but if not you are proving her the fool!
On a different note I love your activities! Maybe someday I will experience some exciting activities like that...I better hurry up tho before I get too old!
Thank you!
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since