Originally Posted By: MrBond
Alot of what you're doing isn't in line with DBing.


This is what I am asking for examples of. I am not totally committed to saving the M. Perhaps that is what is coming across. I swing to and fro on this. When I swing away from the M, and point out why (How she treated me over the years). All I get is criticism. Even if the LRT technique gets her talking to me, there is a bucket load of work to do after that. and it is NOT just on my side.
I suppose either way I have to proceed in the same way, and I dont need to make that decision now.

Originally Posted By: MrBond
And I see you making recommendations on other people's posts that aren't DBing so I would advise you not doing that until you finish reading and truly understand what they mean.

Fair enough

Originally Posted By: MrBond

I still haven't seen much change in your attitude as Zeus has pointed out.

Are you implying that I am playing the victim here? Some of your other comments imply this as well. This is simply untrue. I am and have said I am responsible for my W being unhappy in the M. This doesn't mean she was an angel and did everything right.

IF I had've walked 2 years ago - she could be posting as the LBS. Would you be grilling her about what did YOU do? Has this evaporated now?

thanks for the reply.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015