I have to chime in I agree with GB on his advice the BS has a right to know. If she had discovered the affair first, I assume you would have wanted her to let you know right? Just leave out the commentary. Share the facts and limit it to that. If she asks questions, answer what you know. Remember, you are exposing her to something which is going to change her life. Just make sure you do it in an honest way. No embellishments or negative commentary.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16