W just called from work, like she usually does, to check on the kids around bedtime, but they were already sleeping. She made a comment about how I am becoming distant again. W states that "selfishly, she doesn't want that and she doesn't want that for the kids but she understands."
I just replied by saying "sorry" and I changed the subject.
I really don't understand where she's at right now. It seems she wants the closeness of our friendship so bad and just assumed it would always be there for her. I know I just need to be patient and continue forward on my journey for myself.
But why does she even care that I'm being "distant" when she continues to seek the comfort of OM?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
