Went to file our taxes (again) after the call over the weekend. Short of it is that we found that it was worse filing jointly, so we stayed filing separately. At that point I think she realized how accommodating I was, because I could have been a jerk about it (although it wouldn't have been fair.) She had a big payment and I had a refund, so I said to her that we could add my return to her payment and it evened out.
She was miserable the whole time until I said that and then was more upbeat. She looked at me and I think she realized I just 'lost' a couple G's. Now that wouldn't have been fair, but I looked at her and I said.
"WW, I'm going to leave this as the only thing I say; but we need to coordinate things like this regardless of what's going on with us."
She said she knows and understands. Not so good getting rid of my 'parent' attitude, but she messed up big time and I think she realized I bailed her out.
So in other news, D4 told daycare "all about" W and my incident Friday. Daycare said she knew something happened because D4 kept talking about it. D4 said that Mommy was yelling at Daddy, but Daddy was talking real softly to Mommy. D4 said she just wanted to cover her ears while Mommy was yelling. Then asked daycare what 'taxes' are. So much for thinking kids don't comprehend what's going on around them.
In other, other news, D4 told me they went to the Park with OM, GF and their son. So....yeah.....I guess if its still an A; its not going anywhere. Not sure if their "done," he's just leading her on, or there's another BD for GF (I think this is least likely, its been 8 months since WW made her 'stand') I just know that WW is not going to be out of her fog until that's completely done with NC. I pray she can see this what it is......Patience MCS, Patience.
Last edited by MCS; 04/14/1512:06 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
