Thanks for answering my questions. I totally get when you say that it is a hard spot you are in. So, in my opinion, you are doing what is right for you at this moment.
I posted a comment on Toots page today that is about a friend that his wife cheated on him, left him heart broken, then they D and she moved to another state. During the first year they had some contact and then it became very minimal and there were no kids involved.
So, she reappear from the ashes, they start talking and somehow they agreed to go into MC to help them to get back together.
He loves her till this day and she told him that she still loves him and that she made a huge mistake, that she was confused in her life and most of what happen had anything to do with him, but with herself.
So, if would say, I thought that they were done for good, forever, and yet here they are, trying to get back together even after the divorce.
I applaud you for being strong enough to stand for yourself and your life. I applaud you for making a lot of effort to be a good father for your little ones. I applaud you for the work you are putting on yourself to became a better person. I applaud you for fighting for family values.
We are not perfect in any meaning of the word, but we are in a direction to learn from our mistakes and be better and this is part of our character. That's why we are here. Maybe we lost our direction on the dance floor, but we are back in class to get our balance back.
While our Ss are still holding grudge, or simple afraid of facing the wrong doing that is fulfilling their lives right now. The way a coward show their strength is attacking first and not leaving any room around them. It makes them to feel in control of themselves and the situation.
The lies beneath the cold cover is something that mold your path, an suffocate you somewhere in time.
Be strong Jim, you are doing the right thing and if not with your W, there may be someone else that will share a more special Jim, the one that learned a lot about love, R.
Hope you are having a good day.
(((((((J))))))))
*** Bond, blue eyes, clean face and looking young. Oh mine, now I wish I was at least a decade younger.
