Thanks for the reply Mr. Bond. No, the trip was not with the kids. I will not ask her anything about the trip.
However, W did post a selfie from this trip in a bikini on Instagram and Facebook. I know I shouldn't care but that seemed to really hurt, almost like a rumination from the PA.
W sent another text today of a picture of our daughter with me from a few years ago. I didn't respond this time.
Part of me wonders if W sending pics of the kids to me is an excuse to keep contact with me but I know this is mind-reading.
On another note, I did a little internet sleuth work and confirmed that OM is (or, at least, was) married. I'm still unsure as to whether or not it would be appropriate for me to contact OM's wife. I'm just not convinced that doing so would be consistent with the detachment and LRT I've exhibited thus far.
If I do decide to contact OM's wife, would you recommend a phone call, a letter, or in person?
Last edited by Defacto; 04/13/1508:35 PM.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
