"Came home with my ring off to see if there will be a reaction."
Have you thought of NOT concentrating so much on your W for a change? You may think you're not or are doing things without her, etc. But your posts are all about the actions of your W. And how you're trying to control certain actions from her like the one above.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.