It may come across as defensiveness in this medium, but I assure you that it is more frustration and ignorance, compounded by a desire to "do something now". I welcome open and honest communication regarding this whole process. I want to learn from this and be a better person, with or without my wife. I sincerely appreciate everyone's input and recommendations.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15