For MC, I put my ring back on more for the MC appointment, but stayed pulled back. Opened up a little talking here and there though, but nothing significant. She did not put all of hers back on. Saturday, I left with S3 to go somewhere. On leaving, I said "We will be home later." She responded, "I know you will be," with kind of a smug look on her face. I took that as she thinks I will always be there. Came home with my ring off to see if there will be a reaction. She noticed, and when she was getting ready, she decided to put her rings on. Interesting. I did make the mistake of complimenting her, just kind of came out. Need to hold that back for awhile.
Sunday, I kept my ring off, but remained pretty content. We went to a birthday party for our friend's kids with our S3. A lot of my friends were there. It was actually a good time. I noticed her looking at my hand a decent amount throughout the time we were there.
I know there has been no direct contact since, but OM sent another email last night. It was filtered to the appropriate folder and marked as read (she did not view it). Pretty cute message, longing, begging.
Basically, W went out with some friends on Saturday (confirmed and legit with evidence). W was talking to one in particular, apparently a common acquaintance. OM claimed that W's friend said that W still wanted him and he was wondering what she actually wanted him to do as the ending message said otherwise. I feel a little disrespected about this.
Addicts have a hard time listening and with some comprehension. And W does not seem to have missed me enough, then again, still getting him out of her head is the ideal, and hopefully that is more of what it is. Obviously sounds like this friend of hers is facilitating the continued interest in the A, with or without W's consent.
This person facilitating the A, is obviously not something I appreciate. Should I just sit back a little more, LRT, and monitor? Or should I approach W about this tonight? I am thinking about bringing it up and asking W to send her friend a message about not talking to OM about her, at all.
