Dating your spouse

[Marylov]

Thanks for your input. I have been super busy GAL. It's been amazing actually. I've fixed up things around the house, organized, and been working out more. I've actually been really happy. Our conversation included me telling him that I realized I didn't NEED him, but I still wanted him. His big thing is he doesn't know if he can believe that I can change in the way he needs, which is to put our relationship first. To put his happiness above all else. Well I don't know how tI show him I'm capable of that without reconnecting, and spending time with him. Me moving on was helpful in getting me healthy, and happy, but now I feel like the next step is a change in how he and I interact. Is that wrong? I am at a loss.