In California, I cannot file for extension. I have to respond within 30 days unless the petitioner gives an extension. She did not do so.
I will admit to mind reading, but I do so based on my 17 year history with her. I'd like to think that I know her behaviors and quirks. However, to be fair, I didn't see this affair and divorce, so how well did I really know her?
It does seem like a paradox. I'm supposed to take her at her word when she communicates, and not mind read, yet she has done nothing but lie regarding the deceit of her affair.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15