Winhamn intro - D in process, WAW

[Winhamn]

I'm not trying to be obtuse.

The times she points to where she was very unhappy with our marriage are times when I would retreat into my own shell, and do stuff like not talk to her and leave without saying bye, etc.

I feel like I run the risk of compounding my problems by repeating that behavior.

However, at those times, I would also be giving off a massive negative F U vibe.

So now, as I'm trying to give off nice happy type vibes, and otherwise having pleasant interactions with her, I guess the walk out the door with no goodbye is probably not the same thing.

Thanks for helping me to talk through it.