I love success stories! Yours is an inspiring story of persistence. Thanks for still being around all these years later. I've two questions, if you don't mind.
1. Does your W know about DB and these forums? If so, when and how did she learn about them? She knows you're still around here?
2. How come you were here in 2004, three years before BD? You saw it coming?
Thanks!
Hi Mozz. Yes, my wife knows I post regularly on a marriage support forum. She'll see a post from a FB friend and say "and where do you know him from?" and I'll say "That marriage support site where I post." She knows I come on to "pay it forward," as it were.
I originally posted on the Sex-Starved Marriage forum, and remained there even thru our sitch because that's where I had formed all of my friendships and people knew my background. It was thru us neglecting that part of our marriage -- and my poor response to it . . . and then my wife's poor response to MY response -- that led to the conditions that made her ripe for another man's attention. Many, MANY posters tried to warn me (so you could say that THEY saw it coming), but I ignored their warnings, and then paid the price.
