Georgia Bulldogs, That's an intriguing option but is problematic. The reason is due to W's complaints that I did not offer enough support in her career. I believe this could be a good option if W commits to marriage.
In regards to OM, I'm not sure if he's married or not. W has always told me OM is married but I heard from a friend that W told her OM is not married. I do know that OM has kids. Regardless, I always thought it wise to not focus on OM. I would want my W to freely decide to be with me and not be forced back to me. Control was another issue W had with me in our marriage. I'm afraid contacting OM or his wife would be viewed as a power play and push W farther away. I think it would also conflict with my "letting her go" strategy a bit.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
