1. Get her out of that job where she continues to have contact with OM
2. Get her away from the friends she currently feels aren't being supportive (for what it's worth those are actually good SUPPORTIVE friends that won't support or condone adultery and refuse to associate with your wife as long as she continues down this path...your wife should appreciate them some day if she ever pulls her head out of the fog).
3. Moving is cheaper and better for your family than divorce.
Is OM married? Does his wife know? Maybe his wife will be able to get him to quit?
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
