EDIT: Thanks for the praise twinmom - thanks for your help too. I am prone to mind reading aren't I? That is something to step back from as of course at the same time we're all listening intently to what S is saying etc.

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Now, this may complicate things...

Remember me saying W had signed up to dating site a short while back, and how I had signed up to just have a browse around? Well, yesterday I added a picture just for a laugh. One feature of the site is being able to see who has viewed your profile.

Can you guess what's coming next?

W has viewed my profile on the site...and must know that I have seen hers via the same feature. As I wrote previously, I have no intention of dating now. I only added the pic to see if anyone got in touch - more out of idle curiosity and a bit of a laugh than anything else.

I wonder what W is going to make of this. I will see her next when returning the kids on Wednesday. She has already been clearly wondering what I've been up to. I plan on making the most of a slightly bad situation. I won't bring it up. I feel each time I casually mention I'm doing something of an evening time she will assume it's a date.

Any suggestions on what my response should be should she bring it up?

MIND READING: It could be seen by her as a way that I'm moving on. I don't think she would simply accept I was just browsing and it was a bit of a laugh. My instinct is to not even tell her that was the case. Would that be the right thing to do? This might provoke anger from her. It might also be the first concrete sign for her that SHE is actually losing ME! A million other possibilities exist.

EDIT2: I have just deleted the dating account.


Last edited by alpha99; 04/13/15 12:47 PM.

BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6