But I do want to make sure this is truly worked at and that all changes are lasting changes
I've read many posts requiring the was to write a letter clearly stating his intention to break off affair and then you get to send it to her.
Is there a plan for this? He should be the one to have to to get std tested, not you?
You have been through so much. As part of the marriage struggles, two had a hand in it and You have really lookes deep inside and found where you have failed to meet needs. This was not something you did overnight. He will need to go through this process, not just be repentant for betrayal of your vows or disrespecting Cherry in every way imaginable.
You're doing great! Strong for you. Strong for your baby.
