Somebody is not doing any work and marriages that start with an affair IMHO are doomed.
from a long time ago, my browser, I was in 3 significant Rs prior to meeting my W. And in everyone I was the OM - there were no Ms and upfront I didn't even know that I was the OM. But I explicitly remember thinking, with 1 GF in particular, that is exactly how you met me, so how can I be confident that you won't play the same game again.
I suspect when the OM breaks up a M, there comes a time when this comes up for them even more significantly.
Last edited by Pyrite; 04/13/1507:40 AM.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015