new member please help!!!

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This week has been so crazy. I don't know what happened and how he realized that he needs to be home and not fathering someone else's kid and not being a husband to someone else. He told me this week he's ready to come home and work on our marriage. He has been crying and praying for this big mess to be over. He says he misses the kids and me. He was in a dark place but he's almost ready to come home. He says he just needs more time to completely be free of the ow. He says that she's not the one for him and he doesn't want the kid to think of him as his dad. I have so much to say I just don't know if I should write it all. But the short version is he's says he wants to come home. He's changed her name from his phone to her name and not baby anymore. He has been showing me the messages she sends which before he didn't. So much going on.