I think kids certainly need stability regardless which parent provides it. I wish my kids had their Dad during the really difficult times but he has been in la la land and even now thinks the kids need to reach out to him for direction. I had asked him to talk to S19 before we knew they were pregnant, to get a feel for what his plans were...college, tech school or what. He said sure if he brought it up. Lord, what a lack of help!
I will say this though, my son is like the best father I ever could have imagined. He is very hands on. Changes her and does everything he can for her. That little angel is going to be a daddy's girl and for good reason.
I am really proud of him and give him a ton of credit.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory