Chin up buddy. One thing I really did not grasp in the beginning was the amount of time involved. I was still looking or hoping for that quick fix. But its not going to happen. So use this time wisely and work on yourself. So if and when the opportunity comes down the road when your W does want to work on the M, you will be in a much better place, and much more attractive H to her.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16