Complex #7 - the green(-card) mile

[Complex]

Thanks for the validation.
It's just somewhat hypocritical in a way. But it's for me. And the benefits overweigh the negatives. Caution is key.
W was gone last night, went to a friend, which I believe her. I texted her this afternoon if she's alright because it's untypical for her to be gone that long. Her reaction was that she told me that I do not need to check in on her. Which kind of upset me bc I just wanted to check in if she's alive, that's all.
When she got home I told her it's nothing that we have to make s big deal out of. She told me she is very sensitive to that I want to know what she's doing and trying to control her. Which is stupid bc she texted me last night she'll be gone over night. I didn't even respond to her text AT ALL, and went on my date lol. Of which she has no idea of. But it seems like she is still assuming I'm trying to control her. Which in that case is so wrong.
I made my point clear and quick that not everything I do and think and worry about or not is about her and that she should please stop to assume that.
Then she instantly got friendly again and told me about her day. After coming into our place like a am raging bull lol. I took charge of the moment and I think did the right thing to calm her down and make a good point.
Oh well haha, she is still stuck in her thinking. Until she will eventually realize the steps I'm doing to move on and what kind of a person I've become.