They are totally irrational. It does not even take anyone else feeding them ideas. They will just be irrational. She will think you are out to get her and cause her trouble even if it is totally out of character for you. I don't have much advice at this point but to push to get the divorce finalized so you can be responsible only for yourself and not her until or if ever her head clears up and she starts to be rational again. My wife accused me of trying to be real low this weekend without finding out the facts. i called on this and set her straight. This may not be possible for your wife right now as she is still very deep into her MLC.
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