All- thank you so much for your kind words and responses- I will get back to you soon.
Long story short, I gave W an ultimatum today. Either come home or we can start finalizing things. She said she'll answer me by tomorrow.
There is a laundry list of reasons why I did that, not really going to go into detail right now. But its time to either [censored] or get off the pot. Personally i feel that with W's serious indecisive nature, she will never make up her mind until forced to.
I don't think i will get the answer I want, probably more of a ..."Im sorry T, I just cant."
But oh well. Enough is enough.
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14