This has been a difficult weekend. W is days gone, but this was her birthday weekend-- and, as promised, she went on her romantic camping getaway with OM. Add to this that they are now (obviously) having sex, and the fact that I'm still Facebook friends with her... and I see people posting on her wall "Happy birthday! What are you doing for your birthday?" and I want to scream in response "BLATANTLY and REMORSELESSLY COMMITTING ADULTERY, that's what!!" Instead she seems to at least have the presence of mind to keep quiet, only joking in response to these questions, to avoid letting her co-workers know what she's actually doing.
Hello newpand,
This has to be so rough on you, especially considering it is your W's birthday weekend.
I have just read you situation and it has to be very painful.
Do you think "befriending" her on FB might make her take notice? At the very least, it might give you some peace. It think she is trying to do all she can to get under your skin.
What do others think on this forum? Should newpand take his W off of Facebook?
Hang in there -- we're here for you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
