Also, WW called me to talk about taxes. She was much more collected and we had a reasonable conversation. I told her that I'm not trying to make this difficult, but we agreed to an approach, she changed it, then after I had went separately she wanted me to change it back. I tried not to lecture her, short of saying that we need to improve the way we communicate about things with the separation.

Through it all, I still see a very self-centered 'what's in it for me' attitude from her right now. She hasn't shared anything with me for 8 months I found out how much she paid for the house on Zillow. Now that she found out that she owed money, was all over me about why don't I share stuff with her and questioned my honesty because I didn't tell her what my tax refund/bill was. I know that there's no way to solve that, but I hope and pray that it thaws and she starts looking at how her decisions affect those around her. A man can only hope....


M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)