My sitch aside, it's funny MIL is kind of the same way and WW and I used to talk about how MIL would stretch the truth to a point that others saw it was fabricated, but we would say that it seemed like MIL actually believed what she would say. Because you couldn't convince her otherwise. It seems WW is like that now.
For my sitch, I'll tell you that I have spent more time than I care to admit trying to figure out 'how' W could interpret my actions into what she's said to me and/or others. Its one of those things that I keep trying to look at it from a different perspective and still can't get close to what she's saying. Especially since it seemed to give her 'pain' but I couldn't tell if it was genuine or a cover for the A. I'm not sure she really knows.
Anyway, it doesn't matter and I think I'm at the point of detachment that I really am not concerned about what's going on with her, because like you all said only she can help herself.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)