This has been a difficult weekend. W is days gone, but this was her birthday weekend-- and, as promised, she went on her romantic camping getaway with OM. Add to this that they are now (obviously) having sex, and the fact that I'm still Facebook friends with her... and I see people posting on her wall "Happy birthday! What are you doing for your birthday?" and I want to scream in response "BLATANTLY and REMORSELESSLY COMMITTING ADULTERY, that's what!!" Instead she seems to at least have the presence of mind to keep quiet, only joking in response to these questions, to avoid letting her co-workers know what she's actually doing.