Put one foot in front of the other...

[Elly4]

Thank you Zephyr. I wish I wouldn't tear up when he does this but I can't seem to stop. At least I don't full out cry and otherwise I can remain rational, and validate the heck out of him.

He told me that his mother is going to hate him, and I told him that I could understand how he would think that, but I feel his mother would still love him even if she's upset. Then he said that she would always want to be involved with my S and I and if I wanted him to, he would tell his mother about what was going on. I told him that he needed to make his own choices, that it wasn't about me but what makes him feel right. I still feel like he wants me to kick him out.