Toots you are definitely a big inspiration on these boards the way you have handled the whole ordeal and you have certainly been a big help for me when I was posting my own sitch.
Maybe im just way too cynical at the moment as I have pretty much given up all hope for my marriage. You have definitely made massive strides and you certainly have a full life, I don't question any of that.
Think you pretty much answered it with this statement "I see myself as moving forwards. Not moving on yet"
Once again sorry If I offended.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on