Like you said, every sitch is different. It could be several months, two years, or never. That's why the focus is on you. My sitch swung back and forth like crazy in a relatively short period of time. When I had truly given up any hope was when it suddenly turned around in a matter of weeks and I was asked to move back home. There was plenty of rough time in regards to continued contact with OM and lies to follow though. Total time of my sitch was roughly 6-7 months if that helps.


separated since 9/01/13
M-31
W-36
D-4
Move back home 12/26/13
3 months of tough times
Finally in a happy M