May I share some unsolicited advice that my lawyer shared with me? From this moment onwards assume every conversation is being recorded and could be used against you. Everything you tell you ILs will make its way back to your W. They will eventually side completely with your W no matter how wrong she is. If I were you I would limit or discontinue all conversation with your ILs. Things are heating up rapidly and you don't want to say something incriminating.
My two cents.
RAI
PS. As previously suggested, consider reading The 10 stupidest mistakes men make in divorce (I may have gotten the title slightly wrong). It is a quick but high yield read.
