And one more question: I have noticed lately that many (me included), have great ideas and thoughts about how to deal with the sitch. But when it comes to the point, to APPLY those great thoughts, we struggle. So to the vets: what might be the reason for this and how can one overcome this problem? Is it about discipline or the right mindset or is it just normal and we can not do anything about it? I do not want to be the guy that makes big promises about "going to the gym", but ends up eating chocolate and ice cream instead. How can I avoid this trap?
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Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out