I feel like a really small person for thinking this but here goes:

1. My kids took a vacation without me for a week to Utah
2. It hurt like heck to know they were without me
3. My D6 sent me a post card addressed of course by my WW
4. My S9 and D6 sent a post card to my Mom (their Grandmother) addressed of course by my WW.

All this did was make my cry all over again. Am I wrong for thinking to myself, "My WW blows up our family and our marriage" and has the kids sending me and my Mother post cards that read "I miss you". Does that not strike anyone as ironic but me?

I just have to get over this emotionally but I guess I will just have to make peace that this will always hurt. Maybe over time, the pain will diminish. I guess I should be grateful that they even thought of me and their Grandmother.

Any other way I can frame this to myself to make it hurt less?


Was made a better person by DB'ers