It's fine MB. You feel very strongly about this and I am not on a crusade to change your opinion.
I will say that my STBX wrote a pretty similar story about me to the one you just wrote. The only difference was she's the one that left. But building a case that I am a failure of an H that was negligent, insensitive, abusive, and a force that sapped her spirit and sense of self until she was no longer the person she was supposed to be on this planet...yes, she did that quite convincingly at BD and since. I just don't see it that black and white.
Your thread and your journey, thanks for discussing it respectfully even when we feel differently!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
