Glad you had a good day with the kids Alpha - all sounding good....

Just to comment on your answer - being the best I can be for myself. I would just put a fullstop there and lose the bit about your W after that. If you are truly becoming the guy you want to be, further down the line, you may not even be that bothered about what your W is or isn't noticing.

Ultimately the changes truly need to be for you, not your W. Please don't do things in the hope of re-attraction. That is purely a by-product. If you change with the 'hope' of re-attracting, your W will sense that, and you are unlikely to attract her. But if she sees you becoming a fabulous person in your own right, and not focusing on what she may think - that is very attractive. And this is why it truly needs to be for you....

Last edited by Toots; 04/11/15 08:25 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus