I just got finished spending a week in Newport Beach with my wife's niece, 2 of her friends, my daughter and her husband and child. We had a great time at the beach all week. My wife and I book this trip for Spring Break every year for the past 5 years. It was booked and paid for 6 months ago. I debated not going, but why should I let WW's actions dictate my behavior. Even though it was bittersweet without my wife, I'm glad that I went. I think I will continue this annual tradition on my own, and any of my children or grandchildren are welcome to join me.
That does bring up an interesting interaction that took place with wife last month. I had just got back from Maui (another trip booked 6 months earlier for wife), and she said that she never would have gone without me. So let me get this straight: you filed for divorce and are in a relationship with OM, and you are upset that I went on vacation without you? Weird, to say the least. Keep in mind that she loves to travel, and we did so often. She tells me that OM doesn't like to travel, but who knows If that is true?
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15