Do you have family or friends nearby Cherry? Would it be an option to take yourself and baby off for a bit. Sitting at home waiting for 'something' to happen is probably the worst thing. Plus, ideally you want to be feeling as strong as possible when you do talk.

Please try not to worry. And remember, whatever he comes back to you with - you get to decide what you want to do. And also, while things may feel like 'the end' if he makes a decision - they very often change in time.

The main thing is to protect yourself and baby from all of this upheaval in your life right now. Do what you need to do to feel secure, comfortable and able to move forwards.

Take care Cherry.

Last edited by Toots; 04/11/15 04:25 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus