Ugh that time of night that I start to feel sh*t.. He's barely looking at me. Not really talking, nodding or shaking his head where necessary.
Whenever you see the very first sign of him doing this, you immediately take action to switch the roles. In my mind, I see a W trying to make conversation with her uninterested H. Cherry, that is pursuit. If he is not looking you in your eyes while you are talking to him.........it means he has tuned you out. He is p,asking that old game that men play. "Just nod the head now & then and she'll think you are listening".
Apparently this time of the evening is when you feel vulnerable, so plan ahead and get that spunky, self-confident, sexy attitude jacked up.........and stop watching him. Stop trying to pull him in by talking.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!