Good stand cherry. Remember that you control you only. If you do still love your husband at all, you gave to let him make the biggest mistake of his life, right! That is the only road that you can take. We cannot force, coerce whatever them back into being our spouses. And even if we could would we want them to be as they are right now. I have made the mistake too often of thinking that I don't want to lose my wife...what I am losing, a friend who will not show me the affection that I want, a person who is willing to lie and deceive in lieu of being open and honest. I don't know if that person is worth compromising our chance for happiness for. I am rambling now. Sorry to be so glum.
