Cherry, I'm so sorry this is happening. I think the main things you can do are:

Keep calm

Be very clear about your boundaries

Keep posting

I've got to dash now, but hang on in there and I'm sure more help is on the way.

((((Cherry))))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus