It is funny you say that. Since i found how unhappy my wife has been in our maeeiage I have spent a lot of time really watching the dynamics of other couples. With coaching the kids I have a ton of interaction with the kid's moms, many have gotten divorced over the years. I can distinctly remember complaints they had about their husbands before divorce, after divorce...some of those same complaints are precisely what they found they missed the most. Odd right. I've taken from that maybe, just maybe those women don't know what they really wanted. The men never say anything so I don't have a good insight on that front besides what I read here and there are not many WAH here.
I know not exactly what you were talking about...but that popped into my head and wanted to share. There will be tons of thoughts like this, they are not a bad thing...part of coping. Keep it going.
