Threats of sucide and thoughts of sucide, to tug and direct your emotional response and emotions.
The whole present one relatity and then say it was never what they said while yelling at you, is more abuse and abuser speak for distractions.
Nc is for you, not him. It's helps close the wounds. I should know, it's been a year of basically nc. I'm feeling better and better all the time.
Some days I'm postaively dangerous! Trust me it gets better, you weren't foolish.
The best way I can say this is
You were not in an honnest r, he just wasn't able to be honnest and intimate, so you made the best decisions based on the often warped facts you had. Which now you might not have made, but they were what you though best at the time.
There are no right and wrong decisions. Just decisions very simple really.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
