Wow, your WW is quite a handful. I'm glad to hear you were calm and collected because that's the best way to react to yelling. Leave her with the echo of her own voice. I also think these conversations should be kept as short as possible. Remember that she wants you to argue with her. You're playing her game the more you react. Another way to make an effect is to leave a 2-3 second silence before you respond calmly. I know, I know, it's not easy in the heat of the moment. You sound like you did fairly well.

If you look at my thread, you'll see that I'm at a similar point in my sitch. I rarely talk about it here, but I feel like it would be better not to R with WW. Then again, while I can't stop these thoughts, I can continue to ensure that my actions keep all my options open as I don't know if and when the R question will be brought up to me and under what circumstances. In the meantime, we keep swimming.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
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D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.