Yeah, I struggle between saying things how it is and realizing I need to STFU. I'm honest and truthful in my thoughts to a fault.
For example, I said to her. "WW, you won't talk to me about anything until it concerns something that affects you like money and then you won't stop talking"
D4 was a trooper throughout the discussion, I was calm and collected, but WW kept yelling at me. D4 asked WW why she was yelling at daddy's do said "Mommy work it out with Daddy." WW said, D4, just tell daddy to sign the document and I'll stop yelling at him. I said, "WW, please stop putting other people in the middle, the tax prep was there, our friends have been there and now you have D4 there.
Here's where I need to STFU. I said "WW, please go get help. This isn't about me, you've pushed everyone in you life away" WW said "you're right it's about me and how you have always disrespected me and try to screw me." I said, " than why did I ask you to go talk to your lawyer before you decided what to do, to screw you?" No response.
Anyway, I think I'm detached; I'm pretty much over the sitch. I still wish she could find her way, but I think I'm pretty much done with her from a R standpoint if she doesn't get help.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
