Had an interesting discussion with AM tonight. Apparently she is the single mother of twins and doesn't want to discuss it any further. "I want to keep this private" uh ok. I just said that if she ever felt she wanted to share more I'd be willing to listen. She said "thanks but I don't" I said that's fine...no prob. She's also planning to adopt another child...a boy who apparently has no parents in her village. Wow! She has a good heart anyway. It sounds to me like she feels a lot of shame about being a single Mom. Her kids live with her parents. Anyway, she told me about her best friend and I shared about mine. It was at least a step forward anyway.