You're asking US what to tell your WW to make HER think a certain way. Are you just a conduit between us and her? Where are YOU in this? You need to get to a place where you have a strong sense of what you want to do, ideas that you want to test with outsiders. And to a place where what YOU think about your actions matter much more than what SHE thinks. That's substance. That's something love can latch onto.
Erratum: "You will do things that will upset her in the SHORT run." In the long run, you're more likely to impress her with your strong attitude. Don't mind her immediate reactions so much.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.