Ok, I was snooping. Found all of her texts over years to the OM. Talking about marriage, etc.

Do I confront her, ignore it, tell her to leave the house right now?

There are no boundaries. She's acting like she's not seeing this guy and she just lying right to my face. Her entire family is helping her lie to my face.

This [censored]. I just want her out of my life.

M:42 W:43
T:14 M:10
S:9 D:5
W filed 12/22/14
EA 12/31/14
PA 4/10/15
D final 5/13/15