Affair Over but Stuck

[Hurt06]

More conflict.....in-laws have moved into "you don't love her or the kids" mode and are furious that I will not leave the home or pay for her to leave the home with the kids. They want me to move out and continue to pay every expense for my W with no timeline and no expectation that the marriage will ever be saved. If this is not executed almost immediately W is filing for D and I am choosing to punish my kids by forcing W to file D.

I not really sure who the children are at this point. I have never seen or had any adult talk to me is such a disrespectful way or act more like a child and I am am not talking about my W. I realize that she is upset but this entire sitch is outa control.

I have done a ton of things wrong in my marriage but I do not deserve to be treated or talked to like this. And the weird part is I actually feel terrible. I guess its just hard to see our entire family being tortured by the selfish acts of the W.

I don't have any words......